Feminization?

I'm not the only one who sees the trouble with the feminization accusation thrown around by some preachers. He's a couple other gals that don't care for it to much either:

http://moonchild11.wordpress.com/2012/01/17/effeminate-christianity/

http://sarahfegredo.blogspot.com/2012/01/feminisation-of-church.html